What to Wear for Your Engagement Session: The Ultimate Guide to Feeling and Looking Your Best
Your Engagement Session Should Feel Like You
Choosing what to wear for your engagement photos can feel overwhelming—after all, these are the photos you’ll treasure for years to come! Your outfits not only affect how you look in the photos but also how you feel during the session. And trust me, confidence shines through the camera when you feel like yourself.
DO: Coordinate, Don’t Match
Instead of wearing identical outfits or matching colors, aim for coordination. Think of outfits that complement each other without being overly matchy. For example:
If one partner is wearing a soft neutral (like beige or cream), the other can wear a rich, earthy tone like olive, navy, or burgundy.
Try mixing textures: A flowy dress for one partner pairs beautifully with a structured blazer or cozy sweater for the other.
This approach keeps the visual interest high and avoids looking too “uniform.”
DON’T: Wear Busy Patterns or Distracting Logos
While some patterns like soft florals or plaids can add charm, avoid overly bold or busy patterns like large stripes, polka dots, or neon designs that can distract from you as a couple.
Avoid clothing with logos or words—they tend to date your photos and pull focus.
Stick to timeless styles that will still look classic 10 years from now.
DO: Think About Your Location
The location of your engagement session can influence your outfit choices. Here’s how:
Nature/Outdoors: Earthy tones like forest green, beige, cream, or terracotta will complement natural settings. A long, flowy dress can add a romantic touch.
Urban/Cityscape: Dress it up a little! Think sleek and modern—like a dressier outfit, jeans with a sharp blazer, or chic black tones.
Beach: Light fabrics, pastels, and bare feet work beautifully in coastal settings.
Always consider the terrain and weather—your comfort matters!
DON’T: Forget the Shoes
Your footwear might not always be visible, but they complete your look. Make sure your shoes are practical for the location (think boots for trails, sandals for beaches) while still being stylish. Avoid worn-out or overly casual shoes that don’t align with the vibe of your outfit.
Pro Tip: If you’re planning to wear heels but know the ground might be uneven, bring a pair of backup flats!
DO: Choose Comfortable, Movable Outfits
Engagement sessions involve movement—walking, twirling, or snuggling up on the ground. Wear clothes you can comfortably move in and that make you feel relaxed and confident.
For dresses, opt for styles with flow and movement.
Avoid outfits that require constant adjusting (too-tight fits, slipping straps, etc.).
If you’re uncomfortable in your outfit, it’ll show in the photos!
DON’T: Overthink It
It’s easy to get wrapped up in perfection, but your engagement session is all about celebrating your love. Focus on choosing clothes that reflect who you are, as individuals and as a couple. If you wouldn’t wear something in real life, you likely won’t feel great wearing it in photos.
DO: Accessorize to Elevate Your Look
Accessories can elevate any outfit and add that finishing touch. Think:
Hats (a wide-brimmed hat for outdoors adds a chic vibe)
Layers (like a cozy scarf, blazer, or cardigan for added dimension)
Jewelry (timeless and delicate pieces work best)
Just remember: Less is more—don’t let accessories compete with you or your connection.
DON’T: Forget to Plan Ahead
A little preparation goes a long way. Make sure your clothes are clean, wrinkle-free, and ready to go a day before the session. If your outfits need tailoring, get it done in advance so everything fits perfectly.
BONUS TIP: Bring Options
If you’re unsure, bring a second outfit to your engagement session—one more dressy and one more casual. Having options can give your session two completely different vibes and ensure you’re happy with the final gallery.
Final Thoughts: Be Authentically You
At the end of the day, the best engagement photos capture your connection as a couple. Your outfits should feel like you. Whether you’re adventurers wearing hiking boots, romantics dressed in flowy neutrals, or city-dwellers with chic flair—let your style shine through.
Ready to create bold, heartfelt memories that feel true to your story? Let’s make it happen.
What to Wear Recap: Engagement Session Dos and Don’ts
✅ Do coordinate outfits, not match.
✅ Do wear timeless, comfortable styles.
✅ Do consider your location and add thoughtful accessories.
❌ Don’t wear bold patterns, logos, or clothes you have to fuss with.
❌ Don’t forget shoes that fit the setting and style.
❌ Don’t overthink—choose what feels like you.
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